A formidable woman, dear reader, is one who knows what she wants and is not afraid to go after it.
She is a woman who is fierce, brave, strong, and yet at the same time feminine and a woman.
“I am a woman above everything else.” – Jackie Kennedy
The formidable woman may not be universally liked, dear reader, but she is universally respected.
When she speaks, people listen. When she acts, they pay attention.
She is what is called a significant woman, dear reader.
Her actions and her words matter – she has made sure to that.
Most great men will want a formidable woman by their side, and all formidable women, dear reader have in common an inner strength that never fails to attract such men to them.
To be loved by a man is one thing, dear reader, but to earn his respect, one must also be formidable.
Being formidable in a relationship or a marriage means standing up for and acting from one’s beliefs and values, regardless of circumstances or strong and swaying emotions.
This is not easy to do, which is why such women are so rare.
The formidable woman does not chase after a man, she simply gives him a green or red light indicating what he should do, then lets him act on his own time – she is strong enough to deal with the consequences of either decision he makes, and she is strong enough to wait if that’s what she must do.
She does not change her values or her views to suit his. She has a mind of her own and is not afraid to use it to make her own life choices and decisions. She seeks input and advice from others when necessary, but she never allows anyone to do this for her.
The formidable woman does not crumble in a crisis or a difficult situation. She stands with her head held high, assesses things calmly, and does what needs to be done, however unpleasant that may be.
Most of all, dear reader, the formidable woman has a purpose greater than herself in life. She seeks to make a difference in the world, and she works towards that every day.