The feminine woman of excellence, dear reader, is a joy to be around – she is full of life and she attracts both men and women alike to her.
She is so attractive, because she is open to life’s possibilities. Many people, dear reader, become closed to what life has to offer as they grow older. They experience defeat, perhaps betrayal and misfortune, and they are impaired by it.
The woman who remains open to life’s possibilities is not somehow a “teflon” woman who has miraculously dodged and deflected these things, dear reader. She has experienced them as well, and been hurt by them. But she accepts that such is a part of life, and she doesn’t take them personally. She doesn’t beat herself up endlessly for experiencing a misfortune. Rather, she has learned to cope by seeking the support of those close to her and by using what she’s experienced to become a more intricate, complicated, and interesting woman.
A comforting thought, in that situation, dear reader, is that a woman who is truly an alluring and intriguing queen cannot become that way by only experiencing the positive elements and lightness of life. She has gotten in touch with her darker emotions as well, and explored all sides of herself.
Once she has accepted whatever has happened to her (or that she herself has brought about) in life, she is free to remain open to what the world has to offer her, just as she did as a child.
She wakes energized and excited to start each new day, and expects good things to happen to her (on the whole, not all the time, of course).
And it is, ironically, this attitude which often creates that very same result in reality.
“Our lives are filled with endless possibilities. We just have to open our minds to see them. This means making smart choices. For example, we can choose to act or to react or to sit by and watch life pass us by. And in everything we do, every day, we have a choice to make. Are we going to be great? Or are we going to be mediocre? Why not choose to be great? Why not wake up every morning and ask yourself what you are going to do today that is different and better from what you did yesterday? Why not open your eyes to the endless possibilities that exist when you make a commitment to live the life you dream of living?”