There is one key feature of the high value woman, dear reader – one trait that instantly determines whether or not she is “high value” or “high status.”
And that one trait is that she gives value to whomever she comes into contact with.
The low-value woman (or person) is immediately identifiable in by the reverse trait. She takes from those she comes into contact with. This is because this is all she is capable of – she hasn’t evolved, matured, and developed herself to the point of being capable of giving to others.
She is concerned and focused on what she is receiving in her relationships, rather than on what she is giving and how she is making another’s life and experience better.
The high-value woman understand the importance of contribution. She contributes with her professional work, her family, her relationships, and her community.
She looks for ways she can make things better, and because she is constantly looking, she finds them everywhere (:
She cares about and lives for more than just herself. And this is where her high sense of self-worth and self-esteem come from also. It is impossible, dear reader, to feel great about yourself unless you can feel that you are contributing in some way to people and causes that are outside of and larger than yourself.
“What I know is, that you have to take responsibility for the space you hold, here” – Oprah Winfrey
In personal relationships, the high value woman does not complain or gossip or behave in petty or immature ways because she understands that these behaviors are all draining and take value from whoever she is interacting with.
When she has been hurt or is tired and stressed, she does not falsely pretend that she doesn’t feel those emotions, but she is also mature enough not to act out on them destructively or to complain.
Instead, she adds value to those she comes into contact through through her humanity, her generosity, her concern, her femininity, her deep emotion, and her compassion.
Her smile and her tears have the power to move the world because she is that influential and high value. (: